PIC No. 44:
• Title: Feherty: The Remarkably Funny and Tragic Journey of Golf's David Feherty
• Author: John Feinstein
• Publisher: Hachette Books (May 9, 2023, 272 pages)
• Management Bucket #10 of 20: The Hoopla! Bucket
Welcome to Issue No. 44 of PAILS IN COMPARISON, the value-added sidekick of John Pearson’s Buckets Blog. This blog features my “PICs”—shorter reviews of helpful books—with comparisons to other books in my 20 management buckets (core competencies) filing system.
“It’s Earned Him a Lot of Mulligans in Life”
Looking for a Father’s Day gift? If your dad is a golfer—this is a no-brainer. He will enjoy reading or listening to this new book, just published last month. John Feinstein, the remarkable sportswriter (45 books!), has just gifted golfing fans with Feherty: The Remarkably Funny and Tragic Journey of Golf's David Feherty.
[x] Funny? Check!
[x] Tragic? Check! Check! (Whew.)
Ask any golfer about David Feherty—and they’ll smile and likely chuckle. We’ve all seen one, or dozens, or all 150 episodes of his memorable TV program, Feherty. He’s funny (yes), but he’s also an excellent interviewer. Example: View this clip (1 min., 19 sec.) with World Golf Hall of Famer Tom Watson.
Feherty, in disbelief, hears Tom Watson explain why narrowly missing his 6th Open Championship in 2009 was no big deal. “That’s the beauty and the tragedy of this game we play,” Watson smiles.
I mention Tom Watson because it was Watson, with Jack Nicklaus’ help, who gently confronted Feherty in 2006 about his alcoholism. They were adamant and Nicklaus offered his private plane to fly Watson and Feherty to an AA meeting in Kansas City. Feherty recalls, “Tom and Jack both made it clear they weren’t taking no for an answer. I realized I was being bullied by Tom Watson and kidnapped by Jack Nicklaus. I really didn’t have a choice in the matter.”
I’ve read dozens and dozens of books about friendship, accountability, and tough love. But Feinstein’s picture of what happened—well…I’ll never forget it. Watson’s example is stunning.
“The drinking started again in the summer of 2016,” writes Feinstein, and so once again, Watson jumped on a private jet to meet with Feherty and his wife. An intervention ensued, culminating in a 28-day rehab program at the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota. Feherty endured just 10 days. “He left without checking out, went to the airport, and had four drinks while waiting for his plane. So much for getting sober.”
If you’re reading this, you likely already know about Feherty’s golfing honors (Ryder Cup and more) and his current roles. (Read this.) When his golfing days were over in 1997, he created a new career as an on-course reporter and golf analyst with CBS, NBC, and the Golf Channel. His Irish accent, his golf knowledge, and his wit immediately made him a fan favorite. Yet…his on-and-off-again addiction continued.
“Feherty’s concern wasn’t so much whether he could stay sober when working but whether he could be funny when he was sober.” (Note: When this golf book was published, it was immediately ranked #1 in “alcoholism recovery” on Amazon.)
Wondering if the book is really “remarkably funny,” as promised? It is! Hilarious. I’ve mentioned numerous one-liners and more to family and friends—especially golfing friends. (Example: Feherty’s label for Scottish golfer Colin Montgomerie was “Mrs. Doubtfire.”)
But…it’s much more. In the author’s interviews with David Feherty, and his second wife, Anita, a remarkable transparency and vulnerability shines through. (Much more than many of the faith-based books I’ve reviewed over the years.) There’s this when Anita abruptly ended and walked away from their first date:
“Anita had been willing to go on that second date in July 1995 because she saw in Feherty what almost everyone in his life sees in him: ‘I guess, even though he was drunk, I saw a kindness in him, even that first night, even in just a few minutes,’ she says. ‘I think that’s something people see in him because it’s quite real. It’s earned him a lot of mulligans in life.’”
And speaking of mulligans, pair this book with Ken Blanchard’s and Wally Armstrong’s golfing book, The Mulligan—Everyone Needs a Second Chance in Golf and in Life. (Read my review. Or view the movie—see below.)
Don't skip:
• Why Feherty picked golf over being an opera singer!
• How he lost the trophy after winning the Scottish Open!
• What club to hold over your head in a lightning storm!
• Why Feherty became a U.S. citizen.
• Tiger Woods' nickname for Feherty, plus this on Tiger's skill set: "If you ask me the fifty greatest shots I've ever seen, [Tiger] probably hit forty-nine of them."
• The IOC's true slogan: "Show me the Money!"
• In the must-read Epilogue by Feinstein on Feherty losing a child: "None can truly understand that someone so funny spends at least part of every day in tears—even with all the meds he takes."
Note: I read this book why golfing last month in Palm Desert, Calif. Notable numbers: 104, 103, 102, and 101. (Not my golf scores—the temperature each day!) And note this: sometimes, golfing on my own, I join a threesome of strangers. Their usual cussing and colorful language frequently oozes out after botched shots. Then, around the 10th hole, someone will ask me about my career history—and upon learning that I worked in and consulted with churches and nonprofit Christian organizations, there will be some embarrassed apologies for the colorful language! LOL! And this book? No apologies from the author—but there is some cussing!)
Exquisite Timing? If you can believe it, this morning as I was writing this review, the media’s breaking news was trumpeting the unbelievable merger of the PGA Tour with LIV Golf and the DP World Tour. Feherty, as you likely know, had signed on as a golf analyst with LIV Golf in July 2022. I can hardly wait to hear his commentary on this new global golf entity.
Happy Father’s Day, or Happy National Golf Day, or Happy Birthday—or happy any day. Buy this book for a golfing buddy and read it yourself. Remarkable.
PAILS IN COMPARISON: Reading this book reminded me of several other must-read books in the Hoopla! Bucket, plus other buckets/core competencies.
[ ] Anything for a Golf Ball: The Art of Finding Lost Golf Balls, by John Vawter (Read my review.)
[ ] Tales from Q School: Inside Golf's Fifth Major, by John Feinstein (Read my review. Order from Amazon.)
[ ] The Mulligan—Everyone Needs a Second Chance in Golf and in Life, by Wally Armstrong and Ken Blanchard (Read my review.)
[ ] The Mulligan (View the movie on Amazon Prime.)
[ ] Angel for Higher, by Robert Hendershot with Trevor (Read my review.)
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